{"id":523,"date":"2009-07-14T19:20:00","date_gmt":"2009-07-15T00:20:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.chloeneill.com\/?p=523"},"modified":"2009-07-14T19:20:00","modified_gmt":"2009-07-15T00:20:00","slug":"guest-blogger-author-devon-monk-affirmation-boards","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.chloeneill.com\/?p=523","title":{"rendered":"Guest blogger &#8211; Author Devon Monk &amp; Affirmation Boards"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\"><br \/>I&#8217;m happy to offer the floor today to <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.devonmonk.com\/\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">Devon Monk<\/span><\/a><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">, author of <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.devonmonk.com\/books.asp\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">Magic in the Blood<\/span><\/a><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">, <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.devonmonk.com\/books.asp\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">Magic to the Bone<\/span><\/a><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">, and the forthcoming <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.devonmonk.com\/books.asp\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">Magic in the Shadows<\/span><\/a><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">, who has some lovely thoughts to share regarding creating an Affirmation Board for your writing (or your health goals&#8230;or other career goals&#8230;or any other creative endeavor!)<\/span><\/p>\n<div><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\"><br \/><\/span><\/div>\n<div><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">Take it away, Devon!<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\"><br \/><\/span><\/div>\n<div><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">* * *\u00a0<\/span><\/div>\n<div><!--StartFragment-->  <\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><!--[if supportFields]><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"'font-size:\"><span style=\"'mso-element:field-begin'\"><\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"> <\/span>SEQ CHAPTER \\h \\r 1<\/span><![endif]--><!--[if supportFields]><span lang=\"EN-CA\"  style=\"'mso-ansi-language:EN-CA';font-size:12.0pt;\"><span style=\"'mso-element:field-end'\"><\/span><\/span><![endif]--><span style=\"\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">My friend was tired of New Years resolutions.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun:yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">She wanted to start the year on a better foot.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">Make a better plan than just listing things she would ultimately fail at.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">So she told me about the affirmation board.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">The affirmation board is easy.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">You sit down, flip through magazines while thinking about what you want to do, and better yet, what you want to happen to you in the year ahead.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun:yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">Then you hang that board someplace where you will see it every day\u2013on your closet, by your TV, some place where the images and words can sink into your subconscious and remind you of your hopes and wishes and affirmations.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">It sounded to me like the perfect way to make a year\u2019s worth of writing goals.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">The first time I sat down to make an affirmation board was on New Year\u2019s eve.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun:yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">I bought some poster board, glue and scissors, and asked friends and family to bring their old magazines to the party.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">In a house full of people, at a party I was hosting, I began flipping through magazines.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">I knew some of my goals: I wanted to write more and sell more.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">I wanted balance between all aspects of my life.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">I wanted health for myself, friends and family.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">But how would I make that into a visual inspiration?<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">An amazing thing happened.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">Halfway into the first magazine, the sounds of the party faded away.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun:yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">I forgot I was sitting in a room full of people.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">My conscious mind took the backseat, while my subconscious sorted through photos and words\u2013and wondered, do I want that next year?<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">Is that my hope and dream?<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">Is that a writing goal?<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">Is that the career I\u2019m reaching for?<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">Certain words and pictures jumped out.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">Other concepts were difficult to find.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">No surprise there.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">Dreams are hard to spot in a recycled magazine.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">But trust me, dreams are in there. I cut out everything that spoke to me.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">More words and pictures than I could fit on a board.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">When it came time to assemble the board, I slid photos and words around, feeling like an artistic criminal, making a ransom note for my future.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">The board turned out pretty nice.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">It was pleasant to look at\u2013very important since it was going to be on my wall.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">I posted it above my writing desk so when I was at the computer, my eyes would wander to the board, and my subconscious would be reminded of my goals and dreams.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">What was on that board? A quote: \u201cStep of the cliff expecting to fly, not to fall.\u201d<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">An image: a woman in silhouette standing at the top of a mountain, the sun rising to greet her with \u201csuccess\u201d at her feet.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">A goal: \u201cEditor\u2019s pick.\u201d A hope: \u201chealthy children.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">But there was danger lurking in those words, too. I foolishly clipped out this quote: \u201cSee how much one woman can do\u201d thinking it would be inspirational.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun:yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">It would help me see how much writing I could get done in a year, right?<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">Wrong.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">Instead, I had one of the craziest, busiest years of my life!<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">There wasn\u2019t a last minute emergency that didn\u2019t fall into my lap, there wasn\u2019t a disaster that didn\u2019t need me to handle it, there wasn\u2019t a moment\u2019s rest.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">It was crazy!<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun:yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">Finding out just what one woman could do nearly killed me.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">And it reminded me that words, even just clipped words on cardboard, or electronic pixels on a screen, or ink on a page, have power.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">I\u2019m a little more choosy about what I put on my board now.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">I still strive for things that will encourage me to reach my writing goals.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">If you look in the left hand corner of my board from last year, you\u2019ll see a goal of mine that I haven\u2019t reached yet.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">But I\u2019m working on it.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_X4u7DRdJ1w4\/Sl0hqu0LJJI\/AAAAAAAAAYE\/09zsiOz8seU\/s320\/bog+vis+1.JPG\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5358476149645845650\" style=\"cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 251px; \" \/><br \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">This year, for the first time in ten years, I didn\u2019t make a board.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">I miss it.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">I miss that beginning-of-the-year, fresh-start-hopefulness that helps me keep my chin up during the tough times, the rejections, the failures.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun:yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">The affirmation board is more than a concrete reminder of what I want to accomplish.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">It\u2019s a visual encouragement to keep hoping and keep dreaming.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">And of course, to keep working toward the career I want.<\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\"  style=\" ;font-family:'Times New Roman';\"><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\"  style=\" ;font-family:'Times New Roman';\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">And thanks to Chloe\u2019s invitation to blog here, I think I\u2019m going to make a middle of the year affirmation board.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">Because even half a year without a my writing dreams and goals is far too long.<\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\"  style=\"font-family:'Times New Roman';\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">* * * *\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\"  style=\"font-family:'Times New Roman';\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: small;\">Alright, I have an appointment with some scissors and a glue stick. Thanks for joining us (and inspiring us), Devon!<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m happy to offer the floor today to Devon Monk, author of Magic in the Blood, Magic to the Bone, and the forthcoming Magic in the Shadows, who has some lovely thoughts to share regarding creating an Affirmation Board for your writing (or your health goals&#8230;or other career goals&#8230;or any other creative endeavor!) Take it<a href=\"http:\/\/www.chloeneill.com\/?p=523\">[&#8230;]<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[52,13,205],"class_list":["post-523","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","tag-devon-monk","tag-guest-blog","tag-inspiration-boards"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.chloeneill.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/523","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.chloeneill.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.chloeneill.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.chloeneill.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.chloeneill.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=523"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.chloeneill.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/523\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.chloeneill.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=523"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.chloeneill.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=523"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.chloeneill.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=523"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}